-final- — 30 Days With My School-refusing Sister
I told her that I knew how she felt, and that I had been in her shoes. I reminded her that she wasn't alone, and that I was there to support her. For the first time, she opened up and talked about her fears and worries. It was a moment of raw emotion, but it was also a moment of connection.
It wasn't going to be easy, and it wasn't. There were days when she refused to even get out of bed, let alone do any schoolwork. There were days when I felt like giving up, when I wondered if I was making any progress at all. But I persisted, and slowly but surely, my sister began to make progress. 30 Days With My School-Refusing Sister -Final-
The first few days were tough. My sister was resistant to doing any schoolwork, and she would often lash out at me when I tried to encourage her. She would say things like, "I don't care about school," or "I'm just not going to do it." I tried to be patient and understanding, but it was hard not to take it personally. I told her that I knew how she
I remember one particularly tough day when we were working on a math worksheet. She became overwhelmed and started crying, saying that she just couldn't do it. I sat with her, holding her hand, and talking her through it. I reminded her that it was okay to make mistakes, and that I was there to support her. It was a moment of raw emotion, but
As I look back on the past 30 days, I'm proud of what we accomplished. My sister is now attending school regularly, and she's on track to graduate. She's still struggling with anxiety, but she's learning to manage it.
